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Cuddles are key with Devotional Sex:
wrappo wrote on my forum:

Cuddles are the center of our DevSex model. We do it every evening and morning. Naked of course. Knight is definitely aroused, which she acknowledges. And that’s it.

wrappo - it is the same with me, and this was especially the case with my first Princess.
But if I were to describe Devotional Sex to someone, or to write about sexual adventures, the cuddles just tend to fade into the background.
Yet when the 10 year relationship with my first Princess ended, without doubt it was the ending of the morning and evening cuddle rituals that I felt most deeply. 
So the energized cuddles really are the centre of this lifestyle. They are one of the key reasons that Devotional Sex builds up so much intimacy and connection.
Another key point is that I don’t think there is any other sexual technique / lifestyle that does the same thing.
The skin-on-skin cuddle, with male arousal, that goes no further is very tantric as it is using sexual energy to enhance the cuddle and this sexual energy isn’t taken to further sexual activity and ejaculation. But I think a tantric couple would only have such a cuddle if the actively want it. It is a thing the couple decide to do - like giving someone a massage - not something that just happens.
With Devotional Sex these cuddles just drop out of being a Princess and her Knight. The Knight is energized from not ejaculating for a while, but unlike with a tantric or taoist master, this energy is not fully calmed so that every morning and evening he gets hard wanting sex. 
If my Princess goes to bed early and asks me to come in and give her a cuddle it is not obedience that has me get up and follow her to the bedroom, it is the erotic energy which tells me that there might be sex. And it is the erotic energy and the hope for sex that gets me erect when I cuddle her.
So, in my experience, the thing that makes the Knight want to do the cuddle ritual is the urge for sex. But this does not mean that he doesn’t enjoy and feel all the benefits from lots of cuddles that remain just a cuddle.
The other half of Devotional Sex enabling this cuddle ritual which isn’t provided by other techniques is that the Princess has control over what happens, so she will decide which cuddles go further, and which remain just a cuddle. Because there are enough times of sexual activity for her Knight to be enjoying the sexaul part of the dynamic, she does not feel guilty when she decides it will be just a cuddle.
With Devotional Sex it becomes normal for her to be totally relaxed and comfortable with things not going any further even when her Knight is aroused - his erotic energy just has her feeling desired and loved.
So not only are the cuddles core to the intimacy of Devotional Sex, but I can’t see something similar happening under any other technique.
You can discuss this here on my forum.

Cuddles are key with Devotional Sex:

wrappo wrote on my forum:

Cuddles are the center of our DevSex model. We do it every evening and morning. Naked of course. Knight is definitely aroused, which she acknowledges. And that’s it.

wrappo - it is the same with me, and this was especially the case with my first Princess.

But if I were to describe Devotional Sex to someone, or to write about sexual adventures, the cuddles just tend to fade into the background.

Yet when the 10 year relationship with my first Princess ended, without doubt it was the ending of the morning and evening cuddle rituals that I felt most deeply. 

So the energized cuddles really are the centre of this lifestyle. They are one of the key reasons that Devotional Sex builds up so much intimacy and connection.

Another key point is that I don’t think there is any other sexual technique / lifestyle that does the same thing.

The skin-on-skin cuddle, with male arousal, that goes no further is very tantric as it is using sexual energy to enhance the cuddle and this sexual energy isn’t taken to further sexual activity and ejaculation. But I think a tantric couple would only have such a cuddle if the actively want it. It is a thing the couple decide to do - like giving someone a massage - not something that just happens.

With Devotional Sex these cuddles just drop out of being a Princess and her Knight. The Knight is energized from not ejaculating for a while, but unlike with a tantric or taoist master, this energy is not fully calmed so that every morning and evening he gets hard wanting sex. 

If my Princess goes to bed early and asks me to come in and give her a cuddle it is not obedience that has me get up and follow her to the bedroom, it is the erotic energy which tells me that there might be sex. And it is the erotic energy and the hope for sex that gets me erect when I cuddle her.

So, in my experience, the thing that makes the Knight want to do the cuddle ritual is the urge for sex. But this does not mean that he doesn’t enjoy and feel all the benefits from lots of cuddles that remain just a cuddle.

The other half of Devotional Sex enabling this cuddle ritual which isn’t provided by other techniques is that the Princess has control over what happens, so she will decide which cuddles go further, and which remain just a cuddle. Because there are enough times of sexual activity for her Knight to be enjoying the sexaul part of the dynamic, she does not feel guilty when she decides it will be just a cuddle.

With Devotional Sex it becomes normal for her to be totally relaxed and comfortable with things not going any further even when her Knight is aroused - his erotic energy just has her feeling desired and loved.

So not only are the cuddles core to the intimacy of Devotional Sex, but I can’t see something similar happening under any other technique.

You can discuss this here on my forum.

Some outside devotion.

Some outside devotion.

When he hasn’t cum for many days then it’s even more fun to visually please him.

When he hasn’t cum for many days then it’s even more fun to visually please him.

Devotional Sex leads to lots more time being hard.

Devotional Sex leads to lots more time being hard.

A Princess can look in control even when she is the one who is naked.

A Princess can look in control even when she is the one who is naked.

The way I’ve learned great control in this position is that I never ejaculate when she is on top.
My great control has meant that my Princesses have been able to enjoy many orgasms while riding me, and so in my Devotional Sex life this position is about us both enjoying her pleasures.

The way I’ve learned great control in this position is that I never ejaculate when she is on top.

My great control has meant that my Princesses have been able to enjoy many orgasms while riding me, and so in my Devotional Sex life this position is about us both enjoying her pleasures.

What happens next is up to her.

What happens next is up to her.

Keeping him thinking about her when they are in.

Keeping him thinking about her when they are in.

Keeping him thinking of her as they are out.

Keeping him thinking of her as they are out.

Fun on the beach.

Fun on the beach.

Devotion.

Devotion.

He is in her hands!

He is in her hands!

Mutual pleasure.

Mutual pleasure.

The beauty of his Princess.

The beauty of his Princess.

Pegging can only happen within Devotional Sex if it is something that the Knight is willing to do and if his Princess decides to do it. 
Perhaps this is her fulfilling her fantasy (and he is just willing).
Or perhaps it is his fantasy and she is finding that she enjoys it as much as he does.
Either way, as her smile shows, when both are devoted to the other pegging can be enjoyed as a shared sensual experience. What fun!

Pegging can only happen within Devotional Sex if it is something that the Knight is willing to do and if his Princess decides to do it. 

Perhaps this is her fulfilling her fantasy (and he is just willing).

Or perhaps it is his fantasy and she is finding that she enjoys it as much as he does.

Either way, as her smile shows, when both are devoted to the other pegging can be enjoyed as a shared sensual experience. What fun!