He is in her hands.
Having him be naked with her staying dressed ensures that both keep feeling the Devotional dynamic - he doesn’t forget that he is hers, and she is reminded that he is hers.
PS - I used Google Image search to look for a version of this photo without the purple borders. To my surprise I found that all the other versions don’t include the woman. Yep, she has been photoshopped into the photo!
When everything slows and down and becomes almost still, every little movement becomes a dance of sensual pleasure.
This type of Joy also creates much stronger connection with your partner - it is a step towards tantra.
Pure male fantasy … but what fantasy?
With ‘normal’ sex this fantasy would be all about them wanting to please him and them being keen to have him show what a stud he is.
But with Devotional Sex this would be about the joy of him being their Knight. The women would have control over what happens, and he would enjoy pleasuring them however they wished. And as part of their pleasure is giving him pleasure, he will not be missing out.
And as a Knight never ejaculates when with others this adventure would continue for as long as the women wished.
This Knight might be in for a long night.
Enjoying a naked and aroused man is fun.
This could be a Devotional Sex Party where male nudity and arousal can be enjoyed in a social setting without things going any further.
This photo captures some of the feel of Devotional Sex:
- him aroused and working to be her devoted Knight,
- her relaxed and enjoying his arousal and devotion.
Femdom cf Devotional Sex:
With both the male can be a mentally strong man.
With femdom the woman is dominant, and both feel that he is submitting to her dominance. It is her strength that keeps the dynamic working.
But with Devotional Sex the women is not dominant (so she won’t grab his hair and force him down as shown in this photo).
With Devotional Sex he gives her control over their sexual and sensual lives, and he has to work hard to keep his commitment to obey her - the power that keeps the dynamic going comes from him.
A naturally non-dominant woman can act the role of a Mistress for a while - but this will never feel natural to her.
One of the great things about Devotional Sex is that, in my experience, the role of a Princess can very quickly start to feel natural for a non-dominant woman - it can become a new normal.
Which technique is better for a couple?
My view is that it is the technique which feels most natural to the woman, and that will depend on whether or not she enjoys acting and feeling dominant.
Just the fact that he won’t ejaculate this session changes the whole feel and dynamic, and makes it feel natural to have some intimate time with him inside her without any rush to move forward.
Because he usually hasn’t ejaculated that morning (or the night before), A Knight enjoys watching his Princess get up in the morning almost as much as he enjoys watching her getting ready for bed.
Tantra celebrates erotic energy as a natural and special part of all of life - so having sex outside like this and feeling connected with nature is very tantric.
Tantra also has the man retain his energy - so if this were tantric sex the man would choose not to ejaculate at the end.
If this were Devotional Sex the Knight will also not ejaculate. And as he must not accidentally cum, the sex will naturally be a bit slower and more connected, and it can last longer, giving them more time to also fully take in that their sex is part of the beauty of nature.
This is why I say that Devotional Sex is only 20% kink and 80% tantra.
That her Knight enjoys eating her, and that he will eagerly do it whenever she asks, and that no further sexual activity is expected once she orgasms, are just some of the joys of being a Princess.
It is a lovely feeling for a Princess when such a simple tease is enough to have her Knight very eager to eat her.
With Devotional Sex she decides what will happen as long as it is within what her Knight is willing to do or have done to him.