Devotional Sex Photo Blog
Because he does not ejaculated at the end of most sessions of sex, with Devotional Sex it is the man who most wants (or needs) a cuddle afterwards.

Because he does not ejaculated at the end of most sessions of sex, with Devotional Sex it is the man who most wants (or needs) a cuddle afterwards.

Devotional Sex is a beautiful balance of forces - 
That he desires her so much makes her get wetter. Her wetness makes him desire her more. 
That she can have him lick her whenever she wishes has her feeling special. That he wants to eat her so much means that he is pleased whenever he is asked to do this.
Her view of this is just the top of her pubic hair and her Knight’s hungry eyes between her legs. This matches her role as Princess - relaxed and comfortable with her power and feeling desired and special.
His view is very explicit. This matches his role as Knight -  for him the journey is much more powerful and intense.

Devotional Sex is a beautiful balance of forces - 

That he desires her so much makes her get wetter. Her wetness makes him desire her more. 

That she can have him lick her whenever she wishes has her feeling special. That he wants to eat her so much means that he is pleased whenever he is asked to do this.

Her view of this is just the top of her pubic hair and her Knight’s hungry eyes between her legs. This matches her role as Princess - relaxed and comfortable with her power and feeling desired and special.

His view is very explicit. This matches his role as Knight -  for him the journey is much more powerful and intense.

Rather than having her Knight be naked, a Princess can have him just be bottomless.

Rather than having her Knight be naked, a Princess can have him just be bottomless.

I use the term ‘Princess' to describe a woman who practices Devotional Sex because this term has the feel of her having power to control activities without her acting or feeling dominant. 
Couples who practice Devotional Sex can use other terms:
‘Queen' is good when the women is a little more dominant.
‘Mistress' is suitable during BDSM play or for a women who is even more dominant.
‘My Lady' would work for those who like the formality.
As with all Devotional Sex - the aim is to come up with something that works for each couple.

I use the term ‘Princess' to describe a woman who practices Devotional Sex because this term has the feel of her having power to control activities without her acting or feeling dominant. 

Couples who practice Devotional Sex can use other terms:

Queen' is good when the women is a little more dominant.

Mistress' is suitable during BDSM play or for a women who is even more dominant.

My Lady' would work for those who like the formality.

As with all Devotional Sex - the aim is to come up with something that works for each couple.

When he has not ejaculated for many days her curves become even more beautiful.

When he has not ejaculated for many days her curves become even more beautiful.

An evening when she decides to wear something very special is lots of fun for both.
If she is feeling like an evening where she takes control in a more overtly dominant manner then something with a BDSM flavour works well.
But if she wants an evening where she wants to feel like a Princess (in control, but without acting or feeling dominant) then something very sexy (like in this photo) works incredibly well.

An evening when she decides to wear something very special is lots of fun for both.

If she is feeling like an evening where she takes control in a more overtly dominant manner then something with a BDSM flavour works well.

But if she wants an evening where she wants to feel like a Princess (in control, but without acting or feeling dominant) then something very sexy (like in this photo) works incredibly well.

“Ritual”

Ritual

When living Devotional Sex her nudity always has a sexual component.
Because he doesn’t ejaculate very often a Knight has a higher than ‘normal’ background level of erotic energy - he is always feeling slightly horny. 
His Princess knows that he always admires and desires her - this is the new normal for a Knight. But as arousing him slightly by being nude will only lead to further activity if she chooses, it is always stress free to give him a little visual tease.
Perhaps in this photo she is saying “Come into the bedroom.”
Or perhaps she is halfway between getting out of the shower and getting dressed, and she is just walking past to get something.
Either way, the devotional dynamic is real, and this makes Devotional Sex a part of life.

When living Devotional Sex her nudity always has a sexual component.

Because he doesn’t ejaculate very often a Knight has a higher than ‘normal’ background level of erotic energy - he is always feeling slightly horny. 

His Princess knows that he always admires and desires her - this is the new normal for a Knight. But as arousing him slightly by being nude will only lead to further activity if she chooses, it is always stress free to give him a little visual tease.

Perhaps in this photo she is saying “Come into the bedroom.”

Or perhaps she is halfway between getting out of the shower and getting dressed, and she is just walking past to get something.

Either way, the devotional dynamic is real, and this makes Devotional Sex a part of life.

A refreshing change from the usual oral sex dating photo which shows her doing him.

A refreshing change from the usual oral sex dating photo which shows her doing him.

His Princess decides when and how her Knight will ejaculate.
This can be her saying “Cum now” during intercourse. Or she can tell him to cum in her mouth as she sucks him. And fairly often she decides that she will use her hand to make him cum or she will watch him using his own hands.
In porn it is very common to see photos of the man having ejaculated onto the woman’s body. In Devotional Sex a Princess can have her Knight do this whenever she wishes.
But in my experience with many ‘vanilla’ Princesses, being told to cum onto her body is a very rare event. Him ejaculating on her has a feeling of him dominating her or him taking ownership of her, so it is not surprising that a Princess doesn’t ask for this.
Almost always she has me lie on my back, and when I cum it goes onto my belly and chest. Certainly my lying on my back has me feeling more under her control, and this is a good position for her to watch me. (And I suspect that my Princesses prefer my ‘mess’ to land on me so that their body remains clean afterwards.)
With ‘normal’ vanilla sex I wonder how often him ejaculating on her is felt by her as an act of male domination which she would prefer didn’t happen. I’m sure that some women enjoy having their man cum on them, but I suspect that for some it is something which they just decide to put up with.

His Princess decides when and how her Knight will ejaculate.

This can be her saying “Cum now” during intercourse. Or she can tell him to cum in her mouth as she sucks him. And fairly often she decides that she will use her hand to make him cum or she will watch him using his own hands.

In porn it is very common to see photos of the man having ejaculated onto the woman’s body. In Devotional Sex a Princess can have her Knight do this whenever she wishes.

But in my experience with many ‘vanilla’ Princesses, being told to cum onto her body is a very rare event. Him ejaculating on her has a feeling of him dominating her or him taking ownership of her, so it is not surprising that a Princess doesn’t ask for this.

Almost always she has me lie on my back, and when I cum it goes onto my belly and chest. Certainly my lying on my back has me feeling more under her control, and this is a good position for her to watch me. (And I suspect that my Princesses prefer my ‘mess’ to land on me so that their body remains clean afterwards.)

With ‘normal’ vanilla sex I wonder how often him ejaculating on her is felt by her as an act of male domination which she would prefer didn’t happen. I’m sure that some women enjoy having their man cum on them, but I suspect that for some it is something which they just decide to put up with.

A happy Devotional couple.

A happy Devotional couple.

With ‘normal’ sex he will soon ejaculate.
He will then be flat for the rest of their time on the beach, and that evening (especially if this is a long term relationship and he is older) he won’t be particularly interested in more sex.
With Devotional Sex she will orgasm, and the sexual activity will end without him ejaculating.
He will be highly energised for the rest of their time on the beach. Even once he has calmed down enough to loose his erection he will have high background erotic energy and will still be desiring his Princess.
And after their adventure on the deserted beach, that evening he will be very eager for some more activity. Perhaps his Princess will decide that after sex on the beach all she wants in bed is a cuddle. She will hold his erection and feel his strong desire for her, and both will know that the next day he will be just as keen to be hers.

With ‘normal’ sex he will soon ejaculate.

He will then be flat for the rest of their time on the beach, and that evening (especially if this is a long term relationship and he is older) he won’t be particularly interested in more sex.

With Devotional Sex she will orgasm, and the sexual activity will end without him ejaculating.

He will be highly energised for the rest of their time on the beach. Even once he has calmed down enough to loose his erection he will have high background erotic energy and will still be desiring his Princess.

And after their adventure on the deserted beach, that evening he will be very eager for some more activity. Perhaps his Princess will decide that after sex on the beach all she wants in bed is a cuddle. She will hold his erection and feel his strong desire for her, and both will know that the next day he will be just as keen to be hers.

She knows that her Knight is admiring her - but for now she is just going to read.

She knows that her Knight is admiring her - but for now she is just going to read.

This is even more intense, pleasurable, and fun for both when he hasn’t ejaculated for a few days.

This is even more intense, pleasurable, and fun for both when he hasn’t ejaculated for a few days.

Two weeks ago you were asked about NFP and Catholic teaching. Your devotional sex does, in fact fit nicely into these concepts. The Catholic Church is not anti sex, as the writings and teachings of JPII's "Theology of the Body" and "Love and Responsibility" show, The Church is very anti fornication because fornication reduces the sex act to personal satisfaction instead of the physical representation of the spiritual reality of the unification of Husband and Wife. This topic is forum stuff.
Anonymous

Thanks for your post.

I’ve started a topic on my forum to discuss Catholic teachings and Devotional Sex.