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I'm curious. Why is "she" a Princess and not a Queen?

With Devotional Sex the women isn’t usually dominant. She has control because her Knight has given her control.

The term Queen has more of a dominant feel to it.

You can read more about why I chose the terms Princess and Knight  on my website.

Devotional Trousers:
femdomgames wrote:

Cut out the lining of one of his pockets on his suit pants and order him to wear nothing underneath. Surprise him at different times during the party by reaching in to fondle him. Then enjoy watching him trying to hide the inevitable erection from the rest of the guests.

Though a Devotional Sex Princess isn’t dominant, this is something that is so incredibly well suited to Devotional Sex that I’ve just written a new page on my website about it - see Devotional Trousers.

The biggest difference between Devotional Sex and femdom is that with Devotional Sex this would not involve any humiliation. So if she got him hard then she would have done so where his erection would be hidden - such as when they were sitting down at a dining table.
I’ve written lots of ideas of how these trousers could be enjoyed on my webpage - so check it out.

Devotional Trousers:

femdomgames wrote:

Cut out the lining of one of his pockets on his suit pants and order him to wear nothing underneath. Surprise him at different times during the party by reaching in to fondle him. Then enjoy watching him trying to hide the inevitable erection from the rest of the guests.

Though a Devotional Sex Princess isn’t dominant, this is something that is so incredibly well suited to Devotional Sex that I’ve just written a new page on my website about it - see Devotional Trousers.

The biggest difference between Devotional Sex and femdom is that with Devotional Sex this would not involve any humiliation. So if she got him hard then she would have done so where his erection would be hidden - such as when they were sitting down at a dining table.

I’ve written lots of ideas of how these trousers could be enjoyed on my webpage - so check it out.

Just because she has control and he won’t get to ejaculate doesn’t mean that she can’t choose to enjoy this position.
And what a lovely way to use her control by having him stay still and kiss her.

Just because she has control and he won’t get to ejaculate doesn’t mean that she can’t choose to enjoy this position.

And what a lovely way to use her control by having him stay still and kiss her.

Watching him play with himself as he admires her beauty is a lovely way to celebrate their devotional dynamic.

Watching him play with himself as he admires her beauty is a lovely way to celebrate their devotional dynamic.

Fortunately the photographer was a good friend who knew all about their practice of Devotional Sex.

Fortunately the photographer was a good friend who knew all about their practice of Devotional Sex.

Over 3,500 posts here, and I think this is the first photo I’ve posted of a Knight wearing a Knight’s helmet.
But it’s only the helmet which is unusual.
Him being naked (below the helmet) while she is dressed is something that will be normal for many Devotional Sex Knights.

Over 3,500 posts here, and I think this is the first photo I’ve posted of a Knight wearing a Knight’s helmet.

But it’s only the helmet which is unusual.

Him being naked (below the helmet) while she is dressed is something that will be normal for many Devotional Sex Knights.

It was her decision to use Devotional Dating:
She had felt used after her last few relationships because dating seemed to be all about her being expected to satisfy her date. Where was the mutual pleasuring? Where was the intimacy?
When she read about Devotional Dating she decided that next time would be different. And so when John became very keen to date her she agreed to go out with him - on the condition that things would be done her way.
To date her he had to agree that she would have control over their sexual and sensual activities - she would decide what would happen, how, and when it would end.
But far more challenging, she said that he also had to promise that he wouldn’t ejaculate when with her.
He really liked her …   he really wanted her …
Accepting her conditions seemed a better option than not dating her at all.
She was so pleased that he was willing to become her Knight that she ensured that their first kiss would be something that he would never forget!

It was her decision to use Devotional Dating:

She had felt used after her last few relationships because dating seemed to be all about her being expected to satisfy her date. Where was the mutual pleasuring? Where was the intimacy?

When she read about Devotional Dating she decided that next time would be different. And so when John became very keen to date her she agreed to go out with him - on the condition that things would be done her way.

To date her he had to agree that she would have control over their sexual and sensual activities - she would decide what would happen, how, and when it would end.

But far more challenging, she said that he also had to promise that he wouldn’t ejaculate when with her.

He really liked her …   he really wanted her …

Accepting her conditions seemed a better option than not dating her at all.

She was so pleased that he was willing to become her Knight that she ensured that their first kiss would be something that he would never forget!

The energy and pleasures are enhanced significantly when he hasn’t ejaculated for many days.
More fun for him to receive - more fun for her to give.

The energy and pleasures are enhanced significantly when he hasn’t ejaculated for many days.

More fun for him to receive - more fun for her to give.

With Devotional Sex he probably won’t get to ejaculate now.
So for the rest of the time they spend on the beach, during dinner, and all evening, she will see the sparkle and energy in his eyes which was built up by this adventure.

With Devotional Sex he probably won’t get to ejaculate now.

So for the rest of the time they spend on the beach, during dinner, and all evening, she will see the sparkle and energy in his eyes which was built up by this adventure.

This captures a nice feel of her being in control without her being dominant.

This captures a nice feel of her being in control without her being dominant.

It was her idea to try Devotional Sex, and she decided that the perfect time to do this would be when they went away together for a long weekend.
Rather than explaining to him all about Devotional Sex, which she feared might put him off ever trying it, she just dared him to play a sex game with her during the trip. She challenged him to give her control over all their sensual and sexual activities during the trip.
Things had been a bit flat in their love life, and it was only for a long weekend, so he accepted her challenge just to see what would happen.
On Friday night they had intercourse and it was amazing. She kept telling him not to cum until she said he could, but he just thought this was because she wanted it to last longer.
It was a huge shock to him when she told him to pull out and that he wasn’t allowed to ejaculate that night. Though he didn’t know what it was called, their Devotional Cuddle as he calmed down was a moment of great sexual intimacy.
Of course he woke up on Saturday morning hornier than he had been for years. She gave him a long slow session of oral sex which, with his extra energy, felt like it was his very first time.
Being under her control wasn’t too bad at all!
That is until she ended it with “That’s all for now” and once again he wasn’t allowed to ejaculate.
Now its Saturday night and she is sitting naked in front of him. He has never seen her so sexually confident before - she was glowing.
She asked him about how he had enjoyed the mornings blow job. He enthusiastically told her how incredible it had felt.
"That’s great" she replied. "Now it’s my turn. Tonight all that’s going to happen is that you are going to take your time eating me until I orgasm".
He was disappointed that she seemed to be ruling out any other activtiy. But he could see just how much she was looking forward to him licking her, and with his much higher erotic energy than usual the thought of licking her seemed not a chore or a duty but a pleasure. Just the anticipation of going down on her was making his erection feel even harder.
Already she could tell that this was a game that they would be playing again. Perhaps he would soon enjoy the game so much that he will one day, once she tells him about Devotional Sex, want to become her Knight.
No wonder she looks so happy.

It was her idea to try Devotional Sex, and she decided that the perfect time to do this would be when they went away together for a long weekend.

Rather than explaining to him all about Devotional Sex, which she feared might put him off ever trying it, she just dared him to play a sex game with her during the trip. She challenged him to give her control over all their sensual and sexual activities during the trip.

Things had been a bit flat in their love life, and it was only for a long weekend, so he accepted her challenge just to see what would happen.

On Friday night they had intercourse and it was amazing. She kept telling him not to cum until she said he could, but he just thought this was because she wanted it to last longer.

It was a huge shock to him when she told him to pull out and that he wasn’t allowed to ejaculate that night. Though he didn’t know what it was called, their Devotional Cuddle as he calmed down was a moment of great sexual intimacy.

Of course he woke up on Saturday morning hornier than he had been for years. She gave him a long slow session of oral sex which, with his extra energy, felt like it was his very first time.

Being under her control wasn’t too bad at all!

That is until she ended it with “That’s all for now” and once again he wasn’t allowed to ejaculate.

Now its Saturday night and she is sitting naked in front of him. He has never seen her so sexually confident before - she was glowing.

She asked him about how he had enjoyed the mornings blow job. He enthusiastically told her how incredible it had felt.

"That’s great" she replied. "Now it’s my turn. Tonight all that’s going to happen is that you are going to take your time eating me until I orgasm".

He was disappointed that she seemed to be ruling out any other activtiy. But he could see just how much she was looking forward to him licking her, and with his much higher erotic energy than usual the thought of licking her seemed not a chore or a duty but a pleasure. Just the anticipation of going down on her was making his erection feel even harder.

Already she could tell that this was a game that they would be playing again. Perhaps he would soon enjoy the game so much that he will one day, once she tells him about Devotional Sex, want to become her Knight.

No wonder she looks so happy.

Please share with others what happens with your real-life Devotional Sex.

My readers survey has 57 (14.4%) of those who responded saying that they live Devotional Sex, and 117 (29.5%) saying that they sometimes practice Devotional Sex.

Within Devotional Sex a huge amount of variation and customisation is possible. So what is it that people are finding works for them?

If you are enjoying real-life Devotional Sex it would be great, and of huge benefit to the those considering starting to explore, if you could share some of your experiences on my forum.

Of course when you join the forum you can choose any username you wish, and your post need not include any personal details so you can remain fully anonymous. 

If you are LIVING Devotional Sex please post here on my forum.

And if you SOMETIMES practice Devotional Sex please post here.

It would be wonderful to hear from you.

The beauty of his Princess.

Photo was a submission to nymphoninjas.

The beauty of his Princess.

Photo was a submission to nymphoninjas.

You said" Devotional Sex is for all ages, but my reader survey shows that it’s the over 40’s who are most interested in exploring it." My guess is that's because it's being driven by 40+ year old males looking to get some kind of a sex life back from a wife who is just not interested any more.
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Reading the Member Introductions on my forum proves that revitalising a long-term marriage is a ‘key market’ for Devotional Sex and so 40+ men are probably the main instigators.

But fortunately there is also interest from women and from those under 40 as well. 

And note that Devotional Sex takes into account the age of the Knight - though I recommend that a 50 year old Knight ejaculate on average every 6 to 12 days, a 20 year old will usually only go for 2 to 3 days. 

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