His high erotic energy from not having ejacualted for a few days means that he would love this cuddle to quickly move to some activities.
But as he has given his Princess control over what happens she feels relaxed and comfortable enjoying just this cuddle for as long as she wishes, and part of this is her enjoying his strong desire for her.
Photo is unbenannt by Dani Padgett ∆ on Flickr.
Keeping him thinking about her.
It’s fun for both to have an evening when she keeps her Knight naked and every once in a while gets him very aroused.
Of course this moment of high arousal and passion is great.
But most special is the rest of the time, when he is no longer fully hard, and the couple are doing normal things together (with him still naked and her dressed).
He can feel, and she can see, that his background energy his high and that he is always thinking of her.
Though Devotional Sex leads to more sex and more pleasurable sex, the greatest changes come from the increased intimacy from the times when he is erect but all that happens is some cuddling.
Devotional Sex opens up a new world of sexual pleasures and fun with a couple by themselves, and the difference is just as big when Devotional Sex is applied to group activity.
This photo looks like a real-life (not porn) photo of some happy swingers. Swinging can be lots of fun! But it also comes with lots of expectations and thus it can have a feel of male dominance.
The reason I have a big section on my website about using Devotional Sex with others is that I believe it opens up a whole new world of exploration and fun.
I’m not replacing the old ways - just adding a new way. A new way which I believe is more likely to lead to moments such as in the above photo - the women very relaxed and happy as their Knights have given them control over what happens.
PS - In reply to captionshaming who said “Considering there’s no men in the pic at all I think you’re jumping the gun there a little buddy”
1 - As the introductory text of this tubmlr makes clear - “This blog is a collection of photos (reblogged from elsewhere) which I have interpreted as showing Devotional Sex in action.” So almost everything I post isn’t real Devotional Sex - just something that fits the feel well enough for me to be able to use for this blog.
2 - It’s very likely that at least two other people are in the room, the photographer and someone to the right of the photographer who has made the women laugh. I think it most likely that these are the male partners to the women.
With Devotional Sex she will often see him erect in the bedroom.
Most erections shown in porn and on the internet are well above average size. So most men are small compared to the internet world.
She knows how much her Knight desires her.
She knows that nothing will happen until she decides, and that might not be until much later that day.
It’s fun and powerful for both to enjoy the Devotional dynamic this way.
Please take this down (he's my b/f of1 10.5 years, and I don't want a recognizable photo of him online). Thank you very, truly sincerely. :-) I can't attach a URL, apparently, but he's the guy standing naked in front of the city lights on a rooftop, above a table. Thank you, and love & best wishes to you.
I’m happy to remove the photo, but as I have 3,725 posts I do need some further info so that I can find it.
Please send me another Ask with the URL of the photo but don’t include the http:// part (and/or insert some spaces and say dot instead of . ).
Or telling me the text which goes with the photo might enable me to find the photo using google.
PS - I’ll delete this post once I know which photo to delete.
The Knight having learned good control, and him knowing that he probably won’t get to ejacualte this session, adds a significant tantric flavour to the lovemaking of Devotional Sex.
A happy older Devotional couple.
He is still hard after their morning cuddles (and more).
Even so, when she shows him that she won’t be wearing panties underneath her dress today she is sure that she can see him get even harder.
It’s great fun for her to know that he will be thinking of her all day.
With Devotional Sex it becomes normal for her to be desired by her Knight every morning and bedtime.
But she is relaxed and comfortable with this because he has given her control over what happens and when.
So looking at his erection now she doesn’t see a demand or expectation for sex - rather she sees his desire for her. This is why the Devotional Sex name for a penis is his Desire.
A huge part of the fun and power of Devotional Sex comes from the Princess doing something and deciding to go no further for a long time.
Moments that with ‘normal’ sex would only last for a few seconds can become an amazing adventure when kept going for much much longer.
He had said that he wanted to try Devotional Sex - that is
- not ejaculate for a few days
- and give her control over what happened and when
- and this would continue until she decided that he would ejaculate.
That morning she had had him eat her to orgasm and he had not cum. So during their walk she knew that he was still very energized. She felt she wanted to thank him for his mouth work that morning.
Then she decided what to do …
It was fun to surprise him, and it felt great for him to grow hard in her mouth.
She could tell that part of him wanted to cum, but that he also wanted to be her Knight for a bit longer.
He really was in her hands (and mouth).
She was enjoying her new role so much that she wasn’t ready to end it, so he wouldn’t get to cum now … she was already making plans for that evening.