How often do you recommend the knight orgasms, on average.
Thanks for the question.
I talk about ejaculations because one of the nice optional extras to Devotional Sex is that a Knight can learn the multi-orgasmic man technique and thus orgasm fairly often without ejaculating.
How often, on average, he should ejaculate depends on the individual and his age, so I only give a guideline.
For a 20 year old I recommend every 2 to 3 days, but for a 50 year old it is every 6 to 12 days.
You can read more here on my website.
Some loving in the early morning sun.
When practicing Devotional Sex the big difference is that he won’t ejaculate at the end. So he will spend the day remembering this morning’s pleasure, and that evening he will be even keener to be her Knight.
Her clearly in control:
Devotional Sex has many times when the Knight suggests activities, and many times where there is some negotiation. Though the Princess has control lots of what happens feels like a partnership.
But when she looks like this - it is clear that it’s inappropriate for her Knight to suggest or negotiate. She knows how much he desires her, and she has decided what is going to happen.
With Devotional Sex the Knight chooses not to ejaculate most of the time, and he gives his Princess the power to decide when he cums.
So though it might sometimes be a challenge not to cum when he plays with himself, it is his commitment to himself to be a Knight that ensures he doesn’t ejaculate now.
It’s fun for both to cuddle when he is naked and she is dressed.
Devotional Sex makes this easy to enjoy, and it makes it easy for her to enjoy this cuddle without things going further.
One of the best things about such play is that it generates erotic energy which leads to intimacy - and these feelings continue for the rest of the day.
A happy older Devotional couple.
Because she can …..
….. and because she knows that I enjoy it.
I’ve had many times when a Princess has surprised me by asking me to follow her to the bedroom, her partially undressing just like in the photo, and her saying “Ritual” and having me eat her to orgasm.
Most of my Princesses have enjoyed the rule that on the bed I must always be naked, so for me it a very quick scramble to get my clothes all off so that I can start my worship.
Once she has orgasmed we enjoy a quick Devotional Cuddle.
Then we both get dressed and we are back in the living room - almost as if nothing has happened (apart from the amazing feelings inside).
Devotional Sex can be very surprising and very wonderful.
A hard Desire is the ultimate proof that he desires her.
Photo was a submission to nymphoninjas.
This is NOT Devotional Sex:
It looks like she has arranged for him to appear naked before a friend. But it is clear that he finds this humiliating.
For those that think that CFNM is all about having the male feel humiliated this would be a sexy fantasy photo.
Devotional Sex is done without humiliation. Of course the Knight will feel a bit vulnerable and feel under the control of his Princess. But he will also feel a bit proud that his Princess is wanting to show him off. So though he might feel nervous, a Knight wouldn’t cover his genitals.
Note that the difference between CFNM with humiliation and Devotional Sex is also very important for the observer(s). Which system would work best in real-life also depends on whether or not those watching are attracted to or put off by seeing a man humiliated.
It’s lots of fun for a woman to have an eager Knight.
One of the benefits for a man who decides not to ejaculate as often is the increase in passion which follows.
With Devotional Sex he not only decides not to ejaculate as often, but he gives her control over what happens to balance his increased passion.
The results are wonderful!
I would like to hear more about how your different princesses were thinking about it. Could you give us any examples?
Whilst I’ve had great success introducing women to Devotional Sex, what is very difficult is getting them to write about it for my website.
I think all my Princesses have thought about Devotional Sex the same way - initially it is something a bit weird that I do, and then fairly quickly it becomes a normal way for us to be together with the dynamic feeling very natural. It works because we both enjoy it - it is win-win.
All my long term relationships, short term relationships, dates, and Devotional friends have been non-dominant women. But they have all been confident enough to enjoy being my Princess. The basic dynamic has been the same with all of them.
What is different is which activities they decide will happen often, sometimes, or never. Because of the different mix of activities the Devotional Sex is different with every Princess.
Princess Ada was very generous in adding her comments when I wrote up the story of our first date and then kept a blog of our next few months of activities. So this is probably the best place to read about Devotional Sex from a female viewpoint.