Devotional Sex Photo Blog
What do most men think about licking a woman?
Porn on the internet is primarily male fantasy driven.
What does it say about male fantasy that most photos here on Tumblr of a woman being licked have the licker being female?
I think the above photo is erotic and beautiful. And I would love to watch two women together. But for me and most men this photo is only fantasy.
If it were a male doing the licking then I could imagine that I am that male. Whilst it would be fantasy for me to be with the women in the photo, it will one day soon be reality that I will pleasure a woman with my mouth. 
Sad that most men seem to prefer someone else to do the licking so that they can watch rather than fantasising about doing the licking themselves.

What do most men think about licking a woman?

Porn on the internet is primarily male fantasy driven.

What does it say about male fantasy that most photos here on Tumblr of a woman being licked have the licker being female?

I think the above photo is erotic and beautiful. And I would love to watch two women together. But for me and most men this photo is only fantasy.

If it were a male doing the licking then I could imagine that I am that male. Whilst it would be fantasy for me to be with the women in the photo, it will one day soon be reality that I will pleasure a woman with my mouth. 

Sad that most men seem to prefer someone else to do the licking so that they can watch rather than fantasising about doing the licking themselves.

Fantasy or Future Reality? - Why Devotional Sex is very different:
I’ve not been in a relationship for a few years now, but until a week ago I had been enjoying some Devotional Sex with an intimate friend. As the intimate part of our friendship has now ended I need to start looking forward with the hope of finding someone new.
The internet (including Tumblr) is a powerful purveyor of what for most people will remain fantasy:
With vanilla sex the net pushes disconnected porn-style sex where the fantasy would be that my next date acts like a porn star. The other (non-kinky) extreme would be my next date was a highly-connected tantric practitioner.
When it comes to kink on the net (and in photos here) each option is usually taken to the extreme - the strongly dominant women, humiliation, chastity and orgasm denial, etc. 
Real-life has surprises, but it is highly unlikely that I’ll soon find a woman who wants to be my porn slut, or my tantric goddess, to dominate me, humiliate me, to deny me ejaculation, or any other kink I’ve forgotten to mention.
All of the above are powerful ways of enjoying sex - but if any of them is what I really wanted then it would probably remain an unfulfilled fantasy.
Devotional Sex is just a different way of thinking and doing sex. It could be said to be a mild version of femdom and orgasm denial - and in practice the feel ends up having a lot in common with tantra. 
What is very different about Devotional Sex is that it is so female friendly that enjoying Devotional Sex when I find someone is very likely to become my future reality.
The usual interpretation of the above photo is that this is strong female dominance and for many this is also about humiliation. For most who enjoy the photo this is something that remains a fantasy.
My usual way of introducing Devotional Sex to a date is to give her a foot massage. This is both a nice way to enjoy our first intimacy, and it creates a relaxing way for me to tell her more about the joys of being a Princess and a Knight and how it all works.
She learns that I won’t ejaculate no matter what we get up to, and that she has full control of how far we go, and can pull back at any time (there is no slippery slope). I also make clear that if I feel humiliated it is ‘game over’.
After a while I tell her that a fun and powerful way to feel that the dynamic is real is to have just one of us partially or fully undress, and that if she would enjoy me being naked (and receiving a foot massage from a naked man) she only need say “Reveal”.
In the past I’ve enjoyed many first dates where my date has chosen to say “Reveal” and so this photo captures a reality I’ve enjoyed many times.
On some dates things go no further. The full story of a date that did go much further is told here on my website. 
Finding someone new might take some time (any interested women in Melbourne, Australia are welcome to make contact :). But when I do find someone I’m very likely to once again enjoy the intimacy, erotic fun, and sexual pleasures of Devotional Sex.
I welcome any questions or comments about this post here in my forum.

Fantasy or Future Reality? - Why Devotional Sex is very different:

I’ve not been in a relationship for a few years now, but until a week ago I had been enjoying some Devotional Sex with an intimate friend. As the intimate part of our friendship has now ended I need to start looking forward with the hope of finding someone new.

The internet (including Tumblr) is a powerful purveyor of what for most people will remain fantasy:

With vanilla sex the net pushes disconnected porn-style sex where the fantasy would be that my next date acts like a porn star. The other (non-kinky) extreme would be my next date was a highly-connected tantric practitioner.

When it comes to kink on the net (and in photos here) each option is usually taken to the extreme - the strongly dominant women, humiliation, chastity and orgasm denial, etc. 

Real-life has surprises, but it is highly unlikely that I’ll soon find a woman who wants to be my porn slut, or my tantric goddess, to dominate me, humiliate me, to deny me ejaculation, or any other kink I’ve forgotten to mention.

All of the above are powerful ways of enjoying sex - but if any of them is what I really wanted then it would probably remain an unfulfilled fantasy.

Devotional Sex is just a different way of thinking and doing sex. It could be said to be a mild version of femdom and orgasm denial - and in practice the feel ends up having a lot in common with tantra. 

What is very different about Devotional Sex is that it is so female friendly that enjoying Devotional Sex when I find someone is very likely to become my future reality.

The usual interpretation of the above photo is that this is strong female dominance and for many this is also about humiliation. For most who enjoy the photo this is something that remains a fantasy.

My usual way of introducing Devotional Sex to a date is to give her a foot massage. This is both a nice way to enjoy our first intimacy, and it creates a relaxing way for me to tell her more about the joys of being a Princess and a Knight and how it all works.

She learns that I won’t ejaculate no matter what we get up to, and that she has full control of how far we go, and can pull back at any time (there is no slippery slope). I also make clear that if I feel humiliated it is ‘game over’.

After a while I tell her that a fun and powerful way to feel that the dynamic is real is to have just one of us partially or fully undress, and that if she would enjoy me being naked (and receiving a foot massage from a naked man) she only need say “Reveal”.

In the past I’ve enjoyed many first dates where my date has chosen to say “Reveal” and so this photo captures a reality I’ve enjoyed many times.

On some dates things go no further. The full story of a date that did go much further is told here on my website

Finding someone new might take some time (any interested women in Melbourne, Australia are welcome to make contact :). But when I do find someone I’m very likely to once again enjoy the intimacy, erotic fun, and sexual pleasures of Devotional Sex.

I welcome any questions or comments about this post here in my forum.

Real-life Devotional Sex in the middle of the night:

Sir Griffin has just started practicing Devotional Sex with his wife. In the middle of the night after the third day, she wakes him up …

Click here to read this very erotic story in my Devotional Sex forum.

Comments on the forum, or to Tumblr, are very welcome.

Is it possible that you could include more images of people of color on this blog? It seems like a wonderful concept but feels alienating to not see anyone who looks like me who may share this ideology...

Apart from the few photos of myself, all the photos here are just reblogged from other Tumblrs. Most of the photos I see on Tumblr are of slim, young, white people, and thus my blog has a similar bias. 

So unfortunately my blog is alienating not only to non-whites, but to the older and less slim. Thus I’ve alienated most of my real audience :(

If anyone sees a photo on Tumblr which has the feel of Devotional Sex that you think I should use then please let me know.

Lordrhubarb wrote about Devotional Trousers ..

… there is one disadvantage to this excellent idea, in that the Knight is unable to carry anything useful in his pockets that his Princess might require at a moment’s notice… tissues, for example? I know this is covered under ‘Practical matters’ on the website, but She might always need a tissue…

As it is most convenient for a Princess to have both trouser pockets cut, when wearing the trousers I carry a small bag which as well as a hanky carries my wallet, keys, and as you can tell - my camera :)

I enjoyed another cycle with Princess Tracey today, and once again we had a break and she enjoyed putting her hand into my Devotional Trousers.

I enjoyed another cycle with Princess Tracey today, and once again we had a break and she enjoyed putting her hand into my Devotional Trousers.

Great to see your Princess able to play with you publicly but not publicly if you see what I mean. Enjoying the outdoors and nature doing what comes naturally.
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It felt very good. And because we are both very used to her holding me without anything further happening, what happened on the bench was enjoyed for the moment rather than wanting more to happen.

Unfortunately once I had taken the photos we realised that we were being attacked by mosquitoes, so we got on our bikes and road home.

I’m hoping to have a longer session in the not too distant future :)

Devotional Trousers:

Devotional Trousers are some baggy or loose fitting trousers which have had one or both of the pockets cut out. The Knight wears these trousers without any underwear. His Princess is then able to put her hand into the pocket and touch and, if she wishes, play with his Desire

Today I wore these whilst enjoying a short bike ride with my friend - Princess Tracey. Having ridden as far as we wanted, we stopped for a while and sat on a bench by the path. 

After resting for a short time Princess Tracey’s hand moved into my pocket. With the pleasure of her touch I was soon fully erect, and she wrapped her hand around my erection as we sat and enjoyed the view.

With the baggy trousers (which leaves plenty of room for her hand) it is difficult to see what is happening. But even though it is not really obvious, when some cyclists rode past I put my jumper (which you can see on my right) onto my lap just to make sure we didn’t offend. 

Sitting on the bench with her hand holding my erection felt wonderful (for us both). This type of adventure is highly recommended!

You can read all about the fun of these here on my website.

When he hasn’t ejaculated for a few days it’s even more fun (for both) when she visually teases him.

When he hasn’t ejaculated for a few days it’s even more fun (for both) when she visually teases him.

Devotional Sex makes them BOTH wet.

Devotional Sex makes them BOTH wet.

She enjoys him admiring her.

She enjoys him admiring her.

With Devotional Sex she decides when and how he will cum.
Though he does not ejaculate often, one of the rewards of being a Knight is that when he does cum it is much more powerful, intense, and pleasurable. 
And as it is much more powerful for him it is even more fun for her.

With Devotional Sex she decides when and how he will cum.

Though he does not ejaculate often, one of the rewards of being a Knight is that when he does cum it is much more powerful, intense, and pleasurable. 

And as it is much more powerful for him it is even more fun for her.

Her ready to enjoy his tongue.

Her ready to enjoy his tongue.

Waiting for her eager Knight to join her.

Waiting for her eager Knight to join her.

Relaxing outside.

Relaxing outside.